The Power of Self-Awareness: Discovering the Real You

Have you ever paused long enough to see yourself clearly—not through the lens of fear or failure, but through truth and potential?

Last week, I completed an insight exercise that opened my eyes in a way I hadn’t expected. It showed me how others see me—the strengths they admire, the traits I have downplayed, and even the areas where I could grow. At first, I approached it with curiosity, not realising it would awaken something deep within me: a renewed confidence in who I am.

As I read through the feedback, I caught myself smiling. There were attributes I had forgotten, gifts I’d brushed aside, and truths about myself I had long buried under busyness and self-doubt. Seeing them written down and confirmed by others, felt like someone holding up a mirror and saying, “Look again. You’re more capable than you think.”

That moment reminded me: Self-awareness is the foundation of confidence.

"Self-awareness is not about fixing who you are—it's about discovering who you've always been."

 What Self-Awareness Really Does

Self-awareness isn’t about perfection—it’s about perception. When you understand your values, strengths, blind spots, and natural tendencies, you’re better equipped to make decisions that align with your true self. You stop shrinking. You stop comparing. You begin to own your space.

This week, I’ve walked a little taller—not because everything in my life has changed, but because I see myself differently. I’m clearer on what I bring to the table. I’m kinder to myself in the areas where I need to grow. And most of all, I’m more grounded in my purpose.

If you’ve never done an insight or personality discovery exercise before, I encourage you to try. It’s not about ticking boxes; it’s about unveiling truth. It’s about stepping into the fullness of who you are, weaknesses and all.

Coaching Question:

What do you know to be true about yourself that you’ve been overlooking?

 Confidence Mantra:

“I know who I am. I embrace my strengths. I grow through my awareness. I am becoming the best version of me.”

Prayer for the Week:

Lord, help me to see myself the way You see me. Reveal the gifts You’ve placed inside me and give me the courage to grow in self-awareness. Let me celebrate my strengths, be honest about my weaknesses, and walk in confidence knowing that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Amen.

Work with me:

If you’ve been struggling to find clarity or feel unsure about your direction, let’s work together. I offer coaching that helps women and young adults uncover their identity, rise in confidence, and walk boldly in purpose. Book a discovery session today at iarisenshine.com and start your journey toward greater self-awareness.